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How Not to Let Our Age Stop Us from Being Fulfilled


— October 4, 2019

Just stay true to yourself, don’t listen to others, and you won’t go wrong.


Even though the majority of people tend to think that there are specific standards and types of behavior people of a certain age should blindly stick to, the truth is that no one in this world should tell you how to behave and what to do. Here’s a little guide on how not to let your age stop you from being fulfilled, so check it out and enjoy your life to the fullest!

First of all – don’t let anyone tell you what to do

“Some people are old at 18 and some are young at 90. Time is a concept that humans created.” We completely agree with Yoko Ono’s claim, and we hope that you agree with it as well. Sadly, a lot of people still tend to live their lives according to the expectations of other people, so why wouldn’t you break that circle and live your own life just as you want to? The first thing you should always bear in mind is the fact that no one should tell you what you should do with your life – not even your kids or grandkids, no matter how much they love you and care for you. Some people would say that getting old is actually doing what the society expects of you, so skip that part and do whatever makes you happy and satisfied. As simple as that!

Come up with your own daily routine and stick to it

Coming up with your own daily routine is another important step towards feeling fulfilled and staying active. Of course, we aren’t here to tell you what to do and what not to do, but only to offer some suggestions you can take into consideration. Once you get up, you can take your time to stretch your muscles and move around a little bit. Even a 15-minute walk is a fantastic idea, so walk at your own pace and enjoy the fresh air. Of course, a healthy breakfast is an absolute must, as it’ll give you enough energy for the day and boost your mood. If you have a hobby such as gardening or whatever else, you can spend an hour or more enjoying it and doing something nice for yourself. However, if you think that you’ll need help with anything during the day, you can always hire a support worker who can lend a hand with everything you need. We will emphasize once again that only you really know what you need, so remember that and make your own decisions. 

Cultivate and celebrate your social connections

A lot of experts claim that social relationships are the secret to healthy aging, and that’s because the experience of relating to others is one of the most meaningful and important experiences in life. This is exactly because you should maintain your old friendships and even make new friends – why not? Going out for dinner with your best friends will never go out of style, so why wouldn’t you call the people outside your family you love most and organize a gathering in your favorite restaurant? On the other hand, if you’ve always been a huge movie lover, you definitely shouldn’t skip the latest movie hits just because other people think that you’re too old to do it. Instead of going alone, invite a couple of your best friends and have a great time together. The same goes for a theatre or any other place you’ve always loved visiting, so do whatever you can to cultivate and celebrate your social connections and you’ll see what we were talking about.

Older man and woman looking over a beach scene; image via Pexels.com.
Older man and woman looking over a beach scene; image via Pexels.com.

Remember that you’re allowed to make mistakes and take chances

Last but certainly not least, you should remember that you’re allowed to make mistakes and take chances at any age. Don’t let anyone make you feel insecure of your mistakes and make sure to be understanding of other people at the same time simply because everyone has their own path and does the best they can at the moment. There’s no need to judge one another on what you’ve attained and what you failed to accomplish at a particular moment in time, so understand that everyone is allowed to make mistakes – including you. The same is true for taking chances and achieving everything you can possibly imagine, no matter how old or young you are, which means that you should never be afraid of doing something you’ve never done before. Just stay true to yourself, don’t listen to others, and you won’t go wrong.

As you can see, there are a lot of amazing ways not to let your age stop you from being happy and fulfilled, and these four are definitely the best ones out there. If that’s your ultimate goal, try sticking to our tips and you’ll see a huge improvement shortly – that’s a promise!

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